How often we think that our unforgiveness is somehow limiting the actions or the joy of the perpetrator of some perceived offense. Perhaps we think it somehow punishes the perpetrator. It doesn't -- it only limits our own joy and locks US in the prison. This is an easy lesson to learn if we only thought it through.
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Monday, February 21, 2011
Are you the reason?
Do you ever have the impression that you're put in someone's life to allow them to learn forgiveness? If that's true, how intentional are you in being a "thorough teacher"? As most of us like to be the "best we can be", when do we go too far in drilling the lesson of forgiveness into our "students"?
The aftermath of such "instruction" is often regret and guilt, perhaps even shame. Giving love to the moment, unconditionally, without exception and without allocation will ease our burden and give us a breathing pause to allow us to decide what course to take from this point forward. Do we speak to the person that is given the opportunity to forgive us, or do we let the matter rest for a period of time? Opening the channel for the flow of love will give us a more clear channel of communication with our indwelling Guide -- which can effectively steer us in the proper direction.
Know you are blessed -- all the time.
The aftermath of such "instruction" is often regret and guilt, perhaps even shame. Giving love to the moment, unconditionally, without exception and without allocation will ease our burden and give us a breathing pause to allow us to decide what course to take from this point forward. Do we speak to the person that is given the opportunity to forgive us, or do we let the matter rest for a period of time? Opening the channel for the flow of love will give us a more clear channel of communication with our indwelling Guide -- which can effectively steer us in the proper direction.
Know you are blessed -- all the time.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Whew!
It's been a while since I've posted. During that time I have been ruminating over a short piece that has been on my mind for the past 15 years. The book was started several years ago. Put on the shelf a number of times, taken down, dusted off, rewritten numerous times in the first several chapters but never getting to the end. I was grappling with the content of the book, not seeing what I had to say as deserving of a 250 page trade publication like so many authors were writing. Without that content length, I figured publishers would not want to waste their time.
Then along came Kindle. Obviously, Kindle has been around for several years but it recently came to my attention that it would be a great platform for shorter books. I noticed today that TED now has books published by its presenters on the Kindle platform in the genre called "Kindle Singles."
In any case, the awareness of the Kindle publishing channel gave me the motivation to finish the book. I wouldn't have to run the gauntlet of finding an agent, submitting the publication, waiting for an answer.... I could just finish the book, submit it for publishing and viola' -- a published author.
About 10 years ago I took a little workshop from Joe Sabah, a Denver-based proponent of professional speakers. He has a database of radio talk show hosts and suggests that authors get their works publicized through radio. Apparently it is a "ready market" if you have something a bit out of the ordinary to talk about -- or at least a provocative way of saying ordinary things :).
Being published on the Kindle platform in a few days will give me the means of distributing the book without the upfront production costs of printing a book, make the distribution easy (via Amazon for the Kindle, iPad, iPhone, Android and Blackberry devices), ease of modifying the book should I decide to add to it or change it after publication. Plus it can be priced in the $3 range to make it a easy to justify purchase.
The electronic publishing industry is going to revolutionize and democratize the authoring process!
So watch for it, "Joy: A Simple Choice" is coming soon!
It's been an interesting "trip" getting to the "publish" stage.
Then along came Kindle. Obviously, Kindle has been around for several years but it recently came to my attention that it would be a great platform for shorter books. I noticed today that TED now has books published by its presenters on the Kindle platform in the genre called "Kindle Singles."
In any case, the awareness of the Kindle publishing channel gave me the motivation to finish the book. I wouldn't have to run the gauntlet of finding an agent, submitting the publication, waiting for an answer.... I could just finish the book, submit it for publishing and viola' -- a published author.
About 10 years ago I took a little workshop from Joe Sabah, a Denver-based proponent of professional speakers. He has a database of radio talk show hosts and suggests that authors get their works publicized through radio. Apparently it is a "ready market" if you have something a bit out of the ordinary to talk about -- or at least a provocative way of saying ordinary things :).
Being published on the Kindle platform in a few days will give me the means of distributing the book without the upfront production costs of printing a book, make the distribution easy (via Amazon for the Kindle, iPad, iPhone, Android and Blackberry devices), ease of modifying the book should I decide to add to it or change it after publication. Plus it can be priced in the $3 range to make it a easy to justify purchase.
The electronic publishing industry is going to revolutionize and democratize the authoring process!
So watch for it, "Joy: A Simple Choice" is coming soon!
It's been an interesting "trip" getting to the "publish" stage.
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